When you hear the phrase “losing sight of yourself,” you may picture standing at a major crossroads in life.

What to do about your work.
What to do about your marriage.
What to do about your relationships with family.
Money, health, the future.

Yet in truth, we lose sight of ourselves over and over again in our everyday lives.

When someone invites us somewhere and we cannot say no, even though we do not really want to go.
When we tell our child “no” and then can no longer remember why we said no.
When we are smiling at a school parents’ gathering, yet inside we feel uneasy.
When we watch the news and the world feels like such a frightening place.
When a single word from someone has hurt us.

When we cannot feel joy or gratitude in our daily life.

It is precisely in these small moments that we are, in fact, losing sight of ourselves.
Losing sight of yourself does not necessarily mean you have made some great mistake.
To lose sight of yourself is to be away from the unique color, rhythm, and flow of life that is yours alone.
It is a sign that memories have begun to stir, and thoughts have started running ahead.

“What should I do?”
“I may have made the wrong choice.”
“It is already too late.”
“If only I had done it differently back then.”
“What will others think of me?”
“Is it really alright for me to be here?”

So many voices begin to stir within our minds. At times like these, we try with all our might to find an answer.
Which is the right choice? How can we avoid failure? How can we keep from being disliked? What might lift our mood?

Yet the more we search, the more we seem to wander into a maze of thoughts.

When we try to change ourselves or set ourselves right, from the very moment we notice we are doing so, we are given an opportunity to clean.

Whether it is the experience of feeling lost, or analyzing our past selves — rather than deciding that these are bad, if we simply receive them as “a chance to clean has come!” and put it into practice, our days come to reveal more freedom and spaciousness.

No matter where you are right now, even if you find yourself lost and longing to reach out to someone for help, there is something you can do in this very moment — and that choice will help you remember the uniqueness that is truly your own.

Kamailelauli’I Rafaelovich is president of The Foundation of I, Inc. Freedom of the Cosmos and IZI LLC.
Kamailelauli’I met Morrnah in 1969 and over several years learned the ancient art of Lomilomi-Hawaiian massage. She is a licensed massage therapist. She was present during the years that Morrnah received inspirations from Divinity in meditation … which brought us the Self-I-Dentity through Ho’oponopono® process. Kamailelauli’I is president of Bingboard Consulting LLC.
She is principal broker for her real estate company, The Pele Group, Inc. and received her a MBA from Hawaii Pacific University. Kamailelauli’I owns Ho’omau Ranch, a 1600-acre forested property on Hawaii Island and along with her daughter, manages and cares for it.

She first attended Self I-Dentity Through Ho’oponopono SITH® class in May 2008, in Los Angeles with Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len. In November 2008, she became a coordinator and conducted the first SITH® class in Asia, in Tokyo Japan. Practicing the SITH® process has completely changed her life from living with competition and striving, to living in acceptance of true self and finding the flow. Her life has changed drastically since living from a state of “I DON’T KNOW”. She is deeply grateful to the SITH® process Morrnah has left us in her legacy, and to all the pioneers who have carried on this method, as well as all the coordinators around the world. She feels blessed by the opportunity to have coordinated the SITH® classes in the Asia region, including countries such as Japan, Taiwan, Korea, China, Malaysia and Singapore throughout the years. She has been involved in marketing, promotion and public relations business for 31 years, as the founder of Serene Co., Ltd.

The KR Lecture is an opportunity for KR, the SITH Ho’oponopono representative, who is entrusted to give private sessions by SITH founder Morrnh Simeona, to work with participants gathered around a single theme, cleaning the participants, the venue, the place, the time, the experiences that come up, and any identity related to it.

It can be called an expanded version of the KR private session, where the participants actually clean the memories that are the real cause of problems in their subconscious mind. During the three-hour lecture, participants will be given time to ask questions, and each participant will be able to let go of the memories that we all have in common as we clean them with KR’s cleaning.

The lecture has been well received by participants because of the specific daily experiences and the subtle and cleaning stories that come from living in Hawaii, which are not easily experienced in other classes.

• This lecture will be held using the online meeting app Zoom. Please download the app to your computer or smartphone in advance.

• You can access the URL from one hour before the lecture. If you are not used to using Zoom, please allow plenty of time for your participation.
• Please refrain from taking part in this event in cars or in areas that may cause inconvenience to other people or are noisy.
• A strong and stable internet connection is required.
• We recommend that you use a Wi-Fi connection (rather than a mobile phone network) to access the lecture, as it may use a lot of data.

• Sharing the link of Zoom to others is not allowed.
• In order to protect the copyright of the material we provide and to protect the privacy of all attendees, recording, filming, screenshotting, etc. are not allowed in any way, either as part of the online lecture or in its entirety.
• There are no plans to show the recorded video of the lecture. Please check the schedule and make sure that you will be able to attend the lecture.
• All information, copyrights, trademarks and all other intellectual property rights provided in the online lecture are owned by “IZI LLC”. Therefore, it is prohibited to divulge, disclose, reproduce, copy, distribute, sell, offer, advertise, or otherwise make available to any third party without the prior permission of “IZI LLC”.
• Please note that instructors may be subject to change as a result of cleaning.
• Please be sure to read “Who’s in charge?” before the lecture.

The lecture at SITH Ho’oponopono will be cleaned by SITH executives and instructors from the time of registration, so we cannot accept cancellations after registration is complete for any reason.