When you want to convey or teach Ho’oponopono to someone, the first thing you can do is not to focus on the other person, but to start with cleaning yourself.
Dr. Hew Len often said this:
“The other person is a perfect being. If you think you should clean towards someone, it signifies that there is a memory within you.”
Start by cleaning, and when you are free from the force of thoughts about how things should be or ought to be done, you can manifest the will of the Divine Creator. By freeing yourself, you also free the other person. Then, the complete ideas, information, and rhythms of the divinity begin to flow.