When Love Sparkles
How do you react when your heart is hurt?
The attitude you take in a split second when someone cuts in line in front of you.
When you lose a loved one and can’t recover.
As you age, when you can’t keep up with the changes in your body and don’t want to meet anyone.
Being sociable when meeting people even when things don’t go as planned.
Trying to find meaning when you have to go somewhere you don’t want to.
Getting angry, feeling sad, shutting down, acting cheerful, shifting to positive thinking.
Whichever it is, in most cases, it’s your comfort zone.
Why would being angry or sad be a comfort zone? It sounds contradictory, right? However, the comfort zone I’m referring to here doesn’t necessarily bring you healing.
It’s like hastily hiding the mud under a mat. It’s not something you decided or chose anymore. It’s an instinctive reaction that you’ve been chosen by through memories over and over in your history.
Therefore, the reactions and actions you take in a split second when you get hurt, underneath them, memories are being replayed that you can’t even grasp.
By sticking to the actions and feelings you take in an instant, the healing process you should be seeking is blocked. This brings you more pain.
Instead, using Ho’oponopono can deliver the memory that is the true cause of the hurt to the problem-solving process.
Ho’oponopono won’t magically erase that wound right in front of you. This might be disappointing news for you. However, in reality, through that wound, you meet your true self and open the door to embark on your true mission.
Neither you nor I know the way to true healing. If you have a wound that cannot be healed now, it’s because it’s something you should go through to live your true self in this life, and it’s what your Unihipili has shown you.
Why not let go of the heartache you’ve been holding onto alone, or the pain you’ve hidden under your comfort zone without even realizing it?
I can’t use magic, but if each of us chooses to return to the path to our true selves, I will guide you back to that path.
Peace,
Nello Ceccon
