When I first encountered Ho’oponopono, I had already changed jobs three times.
After working at a major global consulting firm, I moved to a manufacturing company as a consultant, and later supported litigation work with a focus on technical consulting.
Whenever I faced difficulties at a new workplace, Ho’oponopono always showed me the most appropriate way to solve the problem, no matter the field.
Until then, the experiences and achievements I had built in the past became a heavy burden within me. They would always reappear as challenges in every new environment I entered.
However, cleaning has greatly supported me in releasing those entanglements from the past.
For example, when I strongly wished to change my current situation, if a traumatic memory was being replayed across my past, present, and future, the priority was not to “succeed” in a new job—but to clean with that trauma.
Only by releasing it could I finally receive what was meant for me.
No matter the time or situation, what I truly need is always right here, in the present.
The readiness for my talents to flow is already in place.
What I must clean are the memories within me that are blocking that flow.
The only thing I can do is work with myself—regardless of whether I’m at work, school, or home.
Even if it’s not me, but my child struggling in a competitive society, facing academic pressure or job hunting, what a parent can do is not to change the child.
Instead, the parent must clean with the fear and anxiety they experience through their child’s situation.
Because these are entanglements the parent holds toward the child, the only thing to do is to release them.
Only then can the child truly meet their own talents and their path.
Each of us carries our own blueprint.
The greatest purpose in life is to walk upon that path.
On that path alone, we find our talents and abundance.
If we chase only what we want, instead of walking that path, we risk leading ourselves—and our children—away from our true talents and abundance.
Let’s not forget that freedom begins not from the outside, but from within.
Let’s stop waiting for someone else to become free.
When we notice we’re hoping for that, let’s first set ourselves free.
Embrace the pain, fear, and anxiety within you now—without shame.
It’s your chance to be free.
If you feel irritation toward your beloved family and it brings you shame or a sense of failure, there’s something more important than hiding it.
Say, “Thank you for showing this to me, Unihipili.”
From there, all you need is to lean on the power of Divinity.
Peace,
Nello Ceccon
