I often hear from full-time homemakers who feel guilty about using the money their partners earn.
One woman felt guilty because her husband worked while she didn’t have a job. Every time he came home and complained about his health, she found herself feeling irritated. At the same time, she also felt guilty, thinking she had no right to be upset since he was the one earning money.
But what truly matters is recognizing the guilt within yourself. This guilt wasn’t caused by her husband—it was an opportunity, given for her to reconnect with the Divinity. Whether it’s guilt about money or her husband’s health issues, anything that disrupts the natural flow meant for her life becomes a chance for cleaning. Her husband’s health condition was simply a path, a signal.
Whatever is cleaned from within us has far-reaching effects. Cleaning the guilt she experiences around money might even influence her husband’s health. Cleaning all that appears through ourselves—this work of reclaiming flow and restoring our original light—goes beyond us. It naturally leads toward health and abundance.
When we worry about money or face health challenges, or even when we’re not directly experiencing a problem, we might feel as though we’re covered by a heavy cloud. In those moments, we often look outside ourselves for the cause. We might think of the unstable economy or weakening currency and consider how those external events affect us. But what’s truly important is to ask: “What within me is showing me this information and creating these feelings?”
The real source of the situation—whether we feel safe or insecure based on the balance in our bank account—is “memory.”
By erasing memory, we can touch purity. When we are our pure selves, we are free in the present moment—free from memories, and therefore free from fear, comparison, anxiety, and despair. We can stay calm and in harmony. Through cleaning, we clear the clutter from our thinking and naturally restore the original flow. It’s a simple, immediately accessible way to solve problems.
Peace,
Christine Leimakamae Chu
