What exactly is the right kind of relationship?
To be angry and upset with others is, quite frankly, natural. This is because it is a habit, a habit of each and every one of us.
What exactly is a habit, then?
It refers to the replaying of memories. Every habit of feeling, acting, and thinking is tied to a memory.
Whether it is convenient for you or not, it is connected to more information than your conscious mind can comprehend.
So is the right answer to reopen the door and spend the rest of your life being angry at people and society, or to live your life avoiding the places that make you angry?
The most important thing about Ho’oponopono is to clean your memory and reduce your soul debt through what you are experiencing at this very “now” moment.
The word “soul debt” may sound very dark and heavy, but it is about carefully cleaning and releasing what is no longer needed in front of you and returning to the wonderful flow that this one and only life originally has.
Now if you find yourself angry with someone. You will practice what you can do to take responsibility for that. The anger is manifesting itself against the other person, but you can take action and say, “I’m going to clean my memory! and move into action.
Even if you continue to have anger, you are in a really great situation at that time.
When something is happening, the conscious mind does not actually know what is happening. Sometimes a little anger or envy can actually be enough energy to destroy something. So when you are aware of what you are experiencing and cleaning it, you are in the best place, even if it is the worst place in the history of your life.
It is something that has been there all along, throughout history, for hundreds of millions of light years. It is something you have never been able to let go of. It is the memory of war, of destruction. Even if you don’t know what it is, you can finally do what you have never been able to do before.
This is your chance to truly change the course of your life.
Peace
Momilani Ramstrum
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