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\u2500\u2500 Thank you, Marvin. My next question is about Unihipili (the subconscious, inner child).
In Ho\u2019oponopono, we learn that our relationship with Unihipili is very important. We need to learn how to love ourselves and care for our Unihipili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, many students say, \u201cI don\u2019t know how to care for my Unihipili,\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t seem to connect with it.\u201d
As a man, how do you define what it truly means to love yourself?
In your daily life, how do you care for and nurture your Unihipili?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When we clean, we are loving ourselves.
When our consciousness\u2014the inner mother\u2014chooses to clean, our Unihipili benefits.
As we clean, Unihipili gathers memories that can be released in that moment\u2014memories accumulated since the beginning of creation.
Our consciousness doesn\u2019t know exactly what these memories are, but this helps us understand that we never go somewhere without reason. There is always something behind it.
So, when we choose to clean, that is an expression of self-love.
And when we clean, we always clean ourselves first before cleaning others, situations, or objects.
We carry energies from our family, relatives, and ancestors. When we clean, they also benefit. In the same way, the entire universe benefits from our cleaning.
I remember a student who attended a class once\u2014she was a programmer.
She told me that she found it difficult to keep saying \u201cI love you\u201d as a cleaning tool.
At that time, I was not yet a teacher but was organizing the course. She came to me with her concern.
Later, she shared that she found a way to integrate \u201cThank you, I love you\u201d into her programming code, and it helped her a lot.
When we say \u201cI love you,\u201d it doesn\u2019t mean we have to say it with strong emotions.
Rather, we are using the words as a cleaning tool.
Some people may feel that \u201cI love you\u201d is only for romantic relationships, but in Ho\u2019oponopono, that is not the case.
If saying \u201cI love you\u201d feels inappropriate in certain situations, we can use \u201cThank you\u201d as a cleaning tool instead.
We can use various cleaning tools, and all of them lead to the same process\u2014cleaning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\uff1cHow to Care for Unihipili?\uff1e<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2500\u2500 Thank you, Marvin. Another Ho\u2019oponopono teacher, Nello, also a man, once shared that his way of caring for Unihipili is by practicing HA breathing and using the Unihipili care and protection methods taught in official courses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Personally, I have been practicing for many years. Ms. Betty once told me that I seemed to always blame my Unihipili. She taught me to start loving it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So, I began practicing a daily morning routine. I look at myself in the mirror and say, \u201cGood morning. Thank you. I love you.\u201d My way of caring for my inner child is by doing a lot of cleaning every day. \uff1cHow to Clean the Fear and Scarcity of Money?\uff1e<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2500\u2500 Thank you, Marvin. I learned a great method today\u2014to tell Unihipili about our plans for the day and invite it to clean with us. For my final question, how can we clean the fear and feeling of lack regarding money?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Many students take Ho\u2019oponopono business courses to improve their relationship with money. How can we clean the fear and scarcity mindset around money?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Again, the key is to clean. \u2500\u2500 That\u2019s such a simple and practical method. Thank you! In Ho\u2019oponopono, we learn that our relationship with Unihipili is very important. We need to learn how to love ourselves and care for our Unihipili.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":10482,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"template":"","format":"standard","teachername":[126],"genre":[103,104,106,109,110],"newspostcategories":[132],"class_list":{"0":"post-10481","1":"interview","2":"type-interview","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"teachername-marvin-kalaiki-grino","8":"genre-business-money","9":"genre-relationship","10":"genre-selfcare","11":"genre-basic1-class","12":"genre-business-class","13":"newspostcategories-post-interview"},"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t
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Before that, I wasn\u2019t someone who truly loved myself\u2014I was a perfectionist and often blamed myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Every morning, when I wake up and go to the bathroom, I stand in front of the mirror and have a conversation with my Unihipili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At first, every time I did this, I would cry. Tears would flow uncontrollably.
I think it was because, for so many years, I had never truly paid attention to my Unihipili\u2014I had always ignored it.
But after a long period of practice, my relationship with my Unihipili has greatly improved.
So, Marvin, how do you care for your Unihipili?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I start cleaning the moment I wake up.
Throughout the day, I clean many times.
At night, as I lie in bed, I continue to clean until I fall asleep.
Even in my sleep, I am still cleaning.
So, for me, cleaning is an ongoing process.
During the day, I talk to Unihipili about where we are going and what we will be doing.
For example, if my wife says we are going to a restaurant, I tell my Unihipili, \u201cWe are going to this place.\u201d
Or, I tell Unihipili, \u201cToday, we have an interview.\u201d But our real purpose is to clean.
For me, taking care of Unihipili means cleaning, because when we clean, we release the replaying memories stored in our subconscious.
Sometimes, I also say to my Unihipili, \u201cLet me hold your hand.\u201d Or, I simply say, \u201cI love you.\u201d
Cleaning itself is simple, but practicing cleaning can be challenging because we easily project problems onto the outside world.
Our consciousness does this, and it creates obstacles for us.
That\u2019s why continuous cleaning is necessary\u2014so that Unihipili can feel the presence of love.
I remember attending a class with Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len, and there were many students.
During the class, a student asked a question, but I didn\u2019t hear it clearly.
In reality, Unihipili is always listening.
But when memories block us, it can make us feel as though we don\u2019t hear or see what is happening.
When we are in the process of cleaning, we can hear, see, and feel what is truly happening.
Our Unihipili also wants us to clean.
That\u2019s why I say, focusing on cleaning is important.
When we do a HA breath or say \u201cI love you,\u201d it doesn\u2019t have to be spoken aloud\u2014it can be said in our mind.
Or we can use other cleaning tools, such as saying \u201cThank you.\u201d
People always like to hear words of gratitude, even if they don\u2019t realize that we are using \u201cThank you\u201d as a way to clean and release memories.
We are always connected to one another. Through cleaning, we cut the memory ties between us and others, and we all become free.
We always clean ourselves first\u2014just like the safety instructions on an airplane.
We put on our own oxygen mask first before helping others with theirs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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I find this very helpful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Some mention their fear of money or feeling a sense of lack\u2014not necessarily because they don\u2019t have money, but because they hesitate to spend it, feeling scarcity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The cleaning tool manual from the courses includes many tools that can be used.
I remember during the pandemic, many stores in the U.S. shut down.
My wife and I also felt fear\u2014we worried about how to pay our mortgage.
This is a fear that many people experience\u2014the fear of losing something.
But when we are trapped in fear, anxiety, and stress, we are disconnected from Divine Wisdom.
I told my wife, \u201cLet\u2019s clean.\u201d
While cleaning, one day, I suddenly received a call offering me a job.
Originally, I was told my health insurance would take 90 days to be activated.
But suddenly, they processed everything immediately\u2014it took effect right away.
My wife also started teaching children online, providing her with income.
None of this was planned. It all happened through cleaning.
Divinity knows what we need and provides it.
Our job is to clean.
Focus on cleaning, and leave the rest to Divine Wisdom. The gifts from Divinity will come.
Whenever I touch money, I say, \u201cThank you. I love you.\u201d
Even when I see a coin on the street, I pick it up and say, \u201cThank you, I love you.\u201d
Because when we dismiss small amounts of money, money feels ignored.
Money communicates with other money\u2014it carries energy.
So, it\u2019s important to say, \u201cThank you. I love you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We look forward to welcoming you to Asia someday!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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